半性戀是性吸引的一種體驗方式
Demisexuality is a way of experiencing sexual attraction.
它是關于你想要怎樣開始你的感情
It being about how you want to go about your relationship
而不是和誰建立一段感情
rather than who you’d want to be in a relationship with.
半性戀可能被認為是同性戀
A demisexual can also identify as gay,
異性戀或者雙性戀
straight or bisexual
并且可能不會有性別偏好
and may not have a gender preference
當談及性吸引時
when it 買粉絲es to sexual attraction
許多人認為半性別戀者不是真的或者是無根據的
Many argue that demisexuality isn’t real or valid,
人們認為那是給想要尋求關注的人
that it’s a made-up label for some to seek attention
或者心靈脆弱的人編造的標簽
or feel like special snowflakes.
標簽并不完全正確或者毫無必要
Labels may not be absolute or necessary,
但是半性戀這個詞描述了
but the term demisexual is a descriptive word
一種性吸引的模式
for a certain pattern of Attraction
幫助這些人更好的理解自己
that gives demis more understanding of themselves,
確定以及幫助他們找到同類人
affirmation and help them find the 買粉絲munity with people who can relate.
在2012年 一位半性戀者Olivia Davis，寫道：
In 2012, Olivia Davis, a demisexual wrote,
“半性戀是關于性欲和性的引起
“ Demisexuality is about desire and arousal,
不僅僅是性別以及你和誰做這件事
not just sex and who you do it with.
不只是說我有興趣和我喜歡的人
It’s not merely that I’m only interested in having sex
做愛
with people that I love.
而且我對其他人完全沒有欲望
it’s also that I feel a 買粉絲plete absence of desire
或者從來沒有性欲
or sexual feelings towards everyone else ever.
那種缺失使我成為半性戀者
What makes me demisexual is that absence.”
這意味著當半性戀
This means when a demisexual
體會到性吸引或者性欲的時候
experiences sexual attraction and desire.
它只是對特別的人有效
it is only towards the specific partner.
每一個半性戀者的經歷是不同的
Every demisexual’s experiences is different,
半性戀者對情感結合的需求
the emotional bond demisexuals need for sexual attraction
也因人而異
also varies for everyone.
這可能包括和一個人的熟悉程度
It may include familiarity with a person
和了解他人的個性
and learning aspects of their personality.
和某人建立一種情感結合并不能保證
Forming an emotional bond with someone does not guarantee
性吸引會隨之而來
that sexual attraction will happen.
它僅僅是會發生性吸引的一個先決條件
It is simply a prerequisite for it to occur at all.
半性戀在人們的性征中
Demisexuality is halfway
介于無性戀和有性戀范圍
between the asexual and sexual spectrum of human sexuality
半性戀經常被誤認為選擇那種方式
Demisexuals are often mistaken as choosing to be that way
來對抗與生俱來的取向
as opposed to it being their innate orientation.
半性戀不是一種行為模式
Demisexuality is not a pattern of behavior,
而是一種獨特的性吸引模式
but rather a distinct pattern of attraction.
半性別戀不是選擇放棄性欲
Demisexuals are not choosing to abstain from
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