聰明的女性總是自覺地突出自己的性別形象。如英國前首相撒切爾夫人有"鐵娘子"之稱，政壇作為不讓須眉，但在家中仍是個好主婦，為家人做早餐，為女兒粉刷墻壁，對丈夫溫存體貼，其溫柔得到了人們的交口稱贊。

（4）發揮"二號微笑"的魅力

舞蹈演員在舞臺上表演輕松歡快的舞蹈時，要保持"二號微笑"。所謂"二號微笑"，就是"笑不露齒"，不出聲，讓人感到臉上掛著笑意即可，保持"二號微笑"，讓人感覺心情輕松，又比較愉快。

在社交場合，輕輕的微笑可以吸引別人的注意，也可使自己及他人心情輕松些，"笑瞇瞇"的人總是有其魅力的。

眼是心靈之窗，交往時，要行注目禮，目光與對方接觸時間累計應達到全部交談過程的50-70%，目光切忌呆滯、漠然、偷窺、左顧右盼和擠眉弄眼。微笑是接待活動中必不可少的。不宜開口大笑，滿口牙齒一覽無余。恰到好處的化妝使人容光煥發、神采奕奕，但盡量不要顯露修飾痕跡，不宜濃妝艷抹，不宜在公共場合化妝，男士尤其不要油頭粉面。發型不可怪異前衛。接待人員每天都要定時清潔面容、保持口腔衛生，勤修指甲、不蓄胡須。

（5）得體的舉止禮儀 是一種不說話的語言

舉止是一種不說話的“語言”，它真實地反映了一個人的素質、受教育的水平及能夠被人信任的程度。

站要如松，挺拔筆直、舒展俊美、莊重大方、精力充沛、信心十足、積極向上，不要過于隨便，探脖、塌腰、聳肩、彎腿、抖足或雙手插腰及放在褲兜里均不足取。坐要如鐘，不可前傾后仰、歪歪扭扭、高翹二郎腿。行走如風，步態要協調穩健、輕松敏捷，忌內八字和外八字，不能彎腰駝背、歪肩晃膀、扭腰擺臀、左顧右盼。

手勢不宜單調重復，打招呼、致意、告別、歡呼、鼓掌都要注意力度大小、速度快慢、時間長短，不可過度，尤其不要當眾搔頭皮、掏耳朵、摳鼻孔、剔牙、咬指甲、挖鼻屎、搓泥垢、打哈欠、修指甲、揉衣角。咳嗽、吐痰、打噴嚏都要避免大聲，更不能正面對人。向人致意、鞠躬、介紹、遞物、接物都要誠心誠意，表情和藹可親，神情專注。

我的榜樣：

我的個人榜樣，也是我的偶像：成龍。無論怎么樣的情況，他給人的都是一張笑臉。他給人的感覺，無論衣著，發型，身姿都是那么的得體。給人一種親切的感覺。不管怎么說他的形象可以說是完美的。

2000年10月，他笑意盈盈地從北京奧申委常務副主席劉敬民手中接過了北京奧申委聘請證書。這是第一個受聘的北京申奧形象大使。

通過馳名世界的中國功夫，成龍在國際社會中贏得了很高的聲望。在北京申辦工作進入到關鍵的時期，成龍的加盟為申奧形象的進一步提高起到了積極作用。

他說，申辦奧運對提升全北京以至全民的國際形象至關重要。身為華人的一份子，能夠參與到申辦工作中他感到非常光榮，他將全力以赴投入到這件中華民族的盛事中來。

能接受如此的任用，更加足以說明他的形象口碑。

個人的形象塑造，非一日可為之

(1) dressing

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